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4 of 5 in Digital Life Skills

Digital Kindness

7-12th Grades
45 min

Summary

Cyberbullying is broader than most students assume — it includes leaving someone out of a group chat or piling on a mean comment with a laughing emoji. This lesson explores the difference between bystanders and upstanders online and equips students with four concrete tactics to intervene safely.

Activities

Bellringer: If Every Post Went Public

  • Display the scenario: every text, comment, or post gets printed on the front page of the school newspaper.
  • Have students jot down 2-3 predictions before opening it up.
5 min

Instruction

  • Define cyberbullying broadly, using examples students might not expect (group chat exclusion, piling on).
  • Teach Joking vs. Bullying using the impact-over-intent rule.
  • Introduce the Bystander Effect and the three roles: accomplice, bystander, upstander.
  • Present the 4 D's (Direct, Distract, DM, Delegate) as concrete upstander tactics.
10 min

Discussion: Why We Say Things Online We Wouldn't Say in Person

  • Pose the discussion question and let students share in pairs before a whole-class share-out.
  • Push students to connect anonymity and lack of tone/face cues to online cruelty.
8 min

Activity: Cyberbullying Pretest & Module

  • Have students complete the Cyberbullying pretest individually.
  • Launch the Cyberbullying module and let students work through it at their own pace.
20 min

Wrap-Up & Assessment

  • Which of the 4 D's (Direct, Distract, DM, or Delegate) are you most likely to use the next time an online chat turns toxic, and why?
  • What is one small action you can take this week to make our school's digital spaces kinder?
2 min

Lesson Prep

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Cyberbullying Pretest

Assess student knowledge before the Cyberbullying unit.

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Cyberbullying

Students learn to recognize, respond to, and prevent cyberbullying.

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